Article by Dr Raghuram Y.S. MD (Ay) & Dr Manasa S, B.A.M.S
Frenemy
Frenemy is a portmanteau of good friend and enemy. An individual who seems like a good friend however on the identical time can also be an enemy as a result of rivalry or dislike or dangerous intent that he harbors inside him, which isn’t evident outwardly, and likewise acts in a treacherous method are frenemies.

So, what are doshas? Buddies or Enemies or Frenemies, we are going to talk about on this article.
That is my alternate speculation of understanding the philosophy of doshas which I’ve been instructing my college students for 2 and half many years. I’ve additionally introduced this at many phases and have gained appreciation for a similar. I assumed I’d lastly give it the form of an article.
Doshas – mates, enemies or frenemies…!
Assertion 1 – Doshas as enemies
Dosha – means fault. Vata, Pitta and Kapha are often known as Tridoshas. So, these three doshas by nature are at fault i.e. having fault in them. So clearly they’re unhealthy.
Dosha is outlined as ‘Dushayanti iti doshaha’ i.e. ‘These which have the capability to vitiate or contaminate (the tissues, excreta and different elements of the physique)’ are referred to as doshas. By this definition additionally we study that the doshas ‘are unhealthy, disturbing and damaging in nature’.
When doshas get vitiated, they contaminate the tissues and different physique elements and trigger illnesses. No bodily illness is triggered with out the involvement of dosha or doshas.

Assertion 2 – Doshas as mates
On the opposite facet, it’s the identical doshas which kind our prakriti – bodily structure. Which means to say that they’re constructive, useful and wholesome. We’re what they’re. They’re what we’re. We’re both predominantly Vata, or Pitta or Kapha.
Dosha Prakriti types together with us, after we are conceived within the mom’s womb. It can’t be modified for all times.
When doshas are in a state of stability, they turn into answerable for all physiological actions happening within the physique. They handle our physique and are answerable for well being. Sama Dosha – equilibrium of doshas is likely one of the parameters to declare somebody as swastha – utterly wholesome.
Assertion 1 + Assertion 2 – Doshas as frenemies
After we take a look at statements 1 and a couple of, we get a doubt. The identical doshas which participate in making us and are answerable for all actions taking place within the physique are additionally damaging in nature, vitiate and contaminate the physique elements and trigger illnesses.
How do mates turn into foes?
We’ve seen in our actual life additionally that many occasions our greatest mates turn into our worst enemies. However, after we take excellent care of our mates, they could turn into our good mates as effectively. Each these occasions have good potentialities.
Doshas, reasonably than seeing them as our mates (the best way they’re answerable for conduct of all features of the physique), we will see them as ‘foes by nature’ who’ve been programmed to behave like mates. Their intelligence has been modified and the doshas are useful.
So, functionally the doshas are mates and by nature enemies, the dangerous nature of theirs is saved latent. When ‘the floor of good friend’ is eliminated, the ‘layers of an enemy’ are seen.
‘Aren’t we dwelling with our enemies?’
Sure, however so long as we make peace with them and reside in peace, even this relationship with a hidden enemy turns into an exquisite symbiotic relationship.
The programming
Kapha is a tsunami which has forgotten its damaging nature and is behaving like calm waters. It could turn into a tsunami once more.

Pitta is a volcano which has forgotten its damaging nature and is behaving like a serene glowing fireplace. It could turn into a volcano once more.
Vata is a twister which has forgotten its damaging nature and is behaving like a cool breeze. It could turn into a twister once more.
So, the identical issues that are defending us can turn into damaging forces and destroy us. They’ll inflict ache and illnesses on us, even loss of life.
The key of glad and wholesome dwelling is to reside peacefully with our enemies and maintain them in an phantasm that they’re our mates, by nurturing, pampering and taking excellent care of them, for all times.
Reversing of doshic intelligence
We should always perceive that doshas are mainly dangerous however they’re working with altered intelligence. It is a state of samavastha – the stability.
However given the best circumstances for his or her aggravation, this intelligence can reverse again and remind the doshas that ‘they’re dangerous’. Now, the identical doshas turn into vikruta – pathogenic. They assault the identical tissue with which they used to reside in symbiosis. They disturb the identical features which they used to conduct usually.
How does this occur and who does this?
I wish to reply to the second query first. It’s we who do that. We’re answerable for the aggravation or imbalance of those doshas. It’s we who meddle with the intelligence of the doshas and remind them that they’re dangerous.
How?
The doshas get imbalanced after we eat meals and do the actions which aren’t conducive to the doshas, which additionally would disturb their equilibrium and produce about their disturbance. Dosha disturbing habits, behaviors and seasons even have the same impression on the doshas.
The story!
Many occasions we have no idea what is nice for us however there’s a sure response that the physique offers if you find yourself uncovered to them, be it meals or actions or something. We have to catch these alerts early. Each time you’re taking some meals or take pleasure in an exercise or are uncovered to a season or repeat a behavior to which you’re accustomed to or hooked on, the physique suffers in a single or the opposite manner. Then it reacts. You will need to know these reactions which seem within the type of sure signs. Our intelligence alerts us again and again telling us that you’re giving one thing to your physique to which it isn’t snug and glad. If you happen to repeatedly do it, you’re insulting these alerts and harming your system. These are the issues which disturb and imbalance the doshas in you, which create home windows and pathways for illnesses to come back, which depletes your power and immunity and disrupts your well being.
So, what’s the treatment?
Consciousness about your meals and actions, time and seasons, habits and behaviors and what’s good and unhealthy for you. What are these issues which your physique is accepting and what are these for which there’s a continuing rejection and ‘excellent no’ out of your system. You will need to concentrate on self and all alerts the physique is sending you as alerts, earlier than it’s too late. These alerts are the reactions of a number of of your doshas. They’re alerts which inform that the doshas are usually not glad and are disturbed. They’re the alerts which point out that their intelligence has been reversed and so they now keep in mind that they’re mainly damaging in nature.
The treatment can also be to at all times make aware decisions of excellent meals and life-style practices and habits. The treatment is to maintain away all these meals and practices that are inflicting problematic signs in us, each single time. They’re our incompatible lists. The treatment is to make and maintain peace with our doshas.
For this, we have to know our prakriti. We should always study over a time period what fits and what does to not our prakriti and what issues are inflicting vikriti in us. This information and fixed consciousness constructed round these will defend us from illnesses, will maintain the doshas calm, balanced and serene and we are going to take pleasure in good well being.
When doshas get aggravated they show their indicators and signs. You will need to establish them and supply a treatment. These in stability have to be saved there. These aggravated shall be flushed out and people decreased shall be elevated to the brim.
Most occasions we have now seen that we begin feeling higher and our signs ease after we make adjustments in our weight loss plan or life-style follow, take up one thing or give one thing away. We have to make a remark of those adjustments. These are the instructions through which we have to maintain trying and touring.
To sum up,
The complete science and system of Ayurveda is constructed and understood across the ideas and fundamentals of doshas, dhatus and malas.
Even amongst these, understanding doshas, their patterns of behaviors, their subtypes, their stability, their course, how they journey within the physique, their imbalances and get them again to a state of stability and restore well being types the idea and basis of getting success in Ayurveda medical follow. It’s because they not solely kind our prakriti, they can even disturb us and mess up our lives after they get right into a state of vikriti i.e. imbalance, vitiation or aggravation.
It’s good and sensible to know the doshas which make us. Additionally it is good to know the doshic behaviors taking place in us occasionally.
The faster we study that it isn’t the doshas that are harming us or inflicting the illnesses in us, however it’s actually their response to all unhealthy and nonsense issues we’re offering them, for not caring and pampering them, it’s higher. Doshas disturb us solely after we have now meddled with their stability. They usually take loads of time to hurt us. Earlier than that they offer loads of alerts.